PSYCHOLOGY: FRIEND OR FRAUD?
It is natural to expect that the secular world, not having the revelation of God's Word, would develop its own system of values and philosophy for handling the problems of this life. But what does this mean for the Christian? Are these philosophies and values consistent with the teachings of the Bible? Do they add valuable insights that will benefit the church? Or do they represent a system of ideas and methods that is in direct competition with the responsibility of the church to counsel and help people change?
At the tender age of 11, I began a lengthy journey into the world of psychotherapy. Shock treatments, anti-depressant drugs, childhood analysis, behavioral modification programs involving tokens, inner healing...these are just a sample of the therapies I received during many years of a very painful life. It was enormously costly in terms of both time and money. All these psychotherapies were in vain, leaving me much like the old nursery rhyme Humpty Dumpty: "All the world's therapies, and all the world's men, couldn't put Debbie back together again." Even Christian therapists made no headway. Being a Christian, and desperate for answers, I finally tried something "new," the Word of God. I dusted off my Bible and began again, sorting through the tangled psychological theories of man to come to the pure wisdom of God. Ironically, this radical change began its course when I witnessed a psychologist leave the field of psychology to enter full-time ministry. She said just enough about the errors of psychology to motivate me, after her sudden death, to search out the truth. Now, it is my firm conviction that Jesus Christ is indeed enough, and that "His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness, through the knowledge of Him who called us according to His own glory and virtue" (1 Peter 1:3). His Word is the one sure foundation for a system of counsel that is honoring to the Lord.
To begin a closer examination of how God's Word clashes with psychology, we must establish a basic framework for discussion. The words of our God in Isaiah are a good place to begin:
"'Woe to the rebellious children,' says the Lord,
'who take counsel, but not of Me, and who devise plans, but not of My Spirit,
that they may add sin to sin; who walk to go down to Egypt, and have not asked
My advice, to strengthen themselves in the strength of Pharaoh, and to trust in
the shadow of Egypt!" (Isaiah 30:1, 2)
"Woe to those who go down to Egypt for help, and
rely on horses, who trust in chariots because they are many, and in horsemen
because they are very strong, but who do not look to the Holy One of Israel, nor
seek the Lord! Yet He is also wise and will bring disaster, and will not call
back His words, but will arise against the house of evildoers, and against the
help of those who work iniquity. Now the Egyptians are men, and not God; and
their horses are flesh, and not spirit. When the Lord stretches out His hand,
both he who helps will fall, and he who is helped will fall down; they all will
perish together." (Isaiah 31:1-3)
"Every word of God is pure--He is a shield to
those who put their trust in Him. Do not add to His words, lest He
rebuke you, and you be found a liar." (Proverbs 30:5, 6)
Consider the basic questions of psychology, and it is immediately clear that we are dealing with competition. Every system of psychological theory addresses issues that are already fully addressed in Scripture. The major difference is that psychology sees man apart from God. Man is made in God's image. How, therefore, is it possible to accurately study his behavior and motives while excluding God? The psychologists tell us how to handle anger, when to forgive, how to handle our relationships, how to raise children. So does the Bible. If psychology coincidentally crosses paths with the Bible on some rare point, it is redundant. If its answers are different, which is most often the case, then it must be in error. Where there appears to be truth in psychology, time spent in biblical research will reveal that we already have that truth, in purer form, in God's Word.
The basic focus of psychology is self. Psychology attempts to improve self, repair self, value self, esteem self, love self, find self, forgive self. Self becomes god. This is diametrically opposed to the biblical perspective, which says that our old self has been crucified with Christ. Now we are to put off the practices of that old self and put on the qualities of Christ, being conformed to His image. Through biblical truth and the work of the Holy Spirit, we are justified, forgiven, cleansed of our unrighteousness, and sanctified. Psychology, meanwhile, informs us that we are "sick" people in need of "therapy" or "healing." Every sin under the sun (or under the Son!) has been renamed "disease" or "addiction"...drunkenness, gluttony, even sexual immorality. This is tragic because it destroys the great hope of the gospel. Jesus died for our sins, promising to remove our transgressions "as far as the east is from the west" (Psalm 103:12). God will remember our iniquities no more. This glorious hope has been exchanged for a disease model that keeps us in bondage, spending years on the therapeutic merry-go-round, exhausting our financial resources as well. Rather than focusing on the Lord and the work of His Kingdom, Christians are held captive to self...meeting the needs of self, understanding self, protecting self, nurturing self. The truth is: We don't need one more psychologist to explain self or sin. We need a Savior to deliver us from them!
In keeping with the focus on self is the focus on feelings. Some of today's popular therapies encourage us to "get in touch with our feelings" or to ventilate through a variety of expressions. Those unwilling to do so are "in denial." Feelings become god, another idol of the heart. In contrast, the Bible instructs us to focus on the Lord, to walk in the Spirit, and to follow His commandments. When we do so, seeking first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, we are promised the wonderful fruit of the Spirit as a result...love, joy, peace, goodness, kindness, gentleness, patience, self-control, and faithfulness (Galatians 5:16-26). The direct attack on feelings is a dead-end road, while the path of living to please God results in those very blessings we once sought as ends in and of themselves.
Another major difference we can observe is our basic approach to handling problem behaviors and emotions. The biblical approach is that of "putting off," then "putting on," where psychology says we must "deal with" our negative feelings. One of the best examples is anger. The psychologists (some of them!--they don't all agree on much of anything) encourage us to ventilate, pour it out, write it out, assert our rights, "own" our anger. The Bible, in contrast, says to "meditate within your heart at night and be still" (Psalm 4:4), and to "get rid of all bitterness, rage, and anger" (Ephesians 4:31). The biblical way is cleansing and quickly accomplished. The psychological way, seemingly compassionate, extends the process unnecessarily and even adds additional problems. The ventilation of anger is analogous to pouring gasoline on a fire, resulting in even more severe relationship problems.
The type of relationship established in therapy is one that needs close biblical examination. Doing so reveals a closer resemblance to prostitution than to biblical love. A relationship which ought to be founded on love is made "professional." Prostitution takes an intimate relationship which should never involve money and establishes a profit-making business. The counselee is more of an inanimate object than a Christian brother or sister in need of our ministry, prayer, and loving service. Friendship is out of the question. There is no genuine involvement or commitment that extends beyond the professional obligation. The Bible instructs us to serve one another in love, to esteem others ahead of self, and to preach the gospel without charge. The concept of "professional detachment" is foreign to Scripture. The intimate, caring relationship of two Christians must never be reduced to a paid friendship, anymore than the God-ordained sexual union of husband and wife should be distorted into the business of prostitution. Furthermore, counsel that is founded in Jesus Christ must be dependent on His wisdom, His power, His sufficiency, rather than the skills, education, or so-called expertise of the counselor. Neither can it be based on the internal wisdom or outward efforts of the counselee. Paul's words remind us:
"Such confidence as this is ours through Christ before God. Not that we are competent in ourselves to claim anything for ourselves, but our competence comes from God."
(2 Corinthians 3:4, 5)
"Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is
noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is
admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such
things." (Philippians 4:8)